Jamie Gomes For Totally The Bomb
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An Open Letter To the mother of my abuser (AKA: My Mother-In-Law)
An Open Letter To the mother of my abuser (AKA: My Mother-In-Law) August 16, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com The question I keep getting asked when I talk about this ongoing abuse from my husband is, did his mom know? Yeah. Of course she did. I’ve come to her so many times. When he left me without food or water, and unable to go to the bathroom for the better part of a day right after my gallbladder removal, I called her first for help. This is why he says he’s so mad at me now. Because I...
Just freakin’ leave
Just freakin’ leave August 14, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com My whole life is full of court, protection orders, domestic violence advocates, lawyers, police officers, judges, and just so much. Why couldn’t he just leave? I begged him to. For so long. Just go. Just take anything you want and go. Please. Why did he have to do this? I’m already too tired for this and it’s only just begun. I’ve been trying to do one hard thing a day but there are so many hard things to be done. Breaking...
I can’t find my keys, we have to walk home
I can’t find my keys, we have to walk home August 12, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com Yesterday was a big deal. We moved my daughter into her first house. She lived in the dorms last year for college, and that’s always just sort of felt like summer camp. Not real. But now, now she’s all living in a house with roommates and they’re gonna split bills and try to do dishes and laundry on a schedule, and oh man is she in for the coolest year of her life. This was the first big milestone we...
Fun fact about being choked to the point of passing out
Fun fact about being choked to the point of passing out August 10, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com I had my first solo outing to anywhere other than the courthouse today. Everything was good until we got to the end of my pedicure and the nail tech says to me, “Fun fact: being choked to the point of passing out causes bruises around the eyes and in the mouth and inside the nose.” And I stopped dead in my tracks. Because this means she knows. Not only does she know my story, and she’s the...
I owe you a huge apology
I owe you a huge apology August 7, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com Whew. I didn’t know the second I started typing this the waterworks would come, but here they are. This. This is my apology to all of you that I’ve deceived, lied to, tricked, manipulated, or just kept this secret from in any way shape or form. I don’t know why I thought he’d never actually try to kill me. Right now, in this moment, a solid week after he did, I know that he did. And I know now that he would do it again....
Why am I finally talking about the abusive marriage I’ve been in for ten years?
Why am I finally talking about the abusive marriage I’ve been in for ten years? August 7, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com You know, every time before I post another one of these posts, I get scared. Scared to ruin my perfect bubble. Scared that tell the actual truth and that if I do, not only will you not believe me, but if you do believe me, will you resent me for keeping it from you? I mean, I don’t know just know that I started telling the truth out of self preservation. I was starting...
In February I went to jail for squishing my husband’s burrito.
In February I went to jail for squishing my husband’s burrito. August 4, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com One morning I woke up and he was gone. This wasn’t uncommon, he was always disappearing, and I checked his location. Golden. Weird. That’s super far. “Wait— why is he at the jail?” I start calling his phone. I call several more times and finally he calls me back. Except it’s not him, it’s an officer with the Jefferson county police department. All I get is that he’s calling me from...
Strangling To Kill And Strangling For Control Are Two Different Things
Strangling To Kill And Strangling For Control Are Two Different Things August 3, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com On Wednesday night, I was strangled until I lost consciousness. I learned a lot about myself that night, and I learned a lot about what really matters and what really doesn’t. I learned that a ton of stuff can go through your mind in a very, very short amount of time. 15-20 seconds can feel like 6-7 years. I learned that you can’t say words that start with air. When there is no...
I think I understand what I am mourning
I think I understand what I am mourning July 31, 2024 / Read on Totally The Bomb.com As this divorce happens, I am finding that I am so sad. I am not sad to lose my husband. I know that sounds awful, but it’s not really about him. I mean it means I am all sorts of delusional, and I am going to share this with you… but it’s something else. I am mourning the loss of the reward that we worked SO hard to build. The things that we have worked for. I am having to come to the realization that the...
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